How do guys feel about fat girls ?

ShyFatGirl

I'm a girl. I'm 18 and I weigh 355 lb.

Seamus_B

Personally, I like all kinds of body types and bellies; especially if they're ticklish.

ShyFatGirl

Really ? Thank you so much

TheStarTurtle

I think bigger girls can be some of the most beautiful on the planet. :D

CONCAVETUMMYLOVER

Honestly I don't find fat girls attractive in the least. The nature of my specific corner of the tummy/bellybutton fetish kind of makes it difficult for me to be sexually attracted to women of a certain weight and size. It's just not my preference and frankly I'm sick of being made to feel guilty or being labeled fat phobic because of this new "body positivity" movement.

Seamus_B

Honestly I don't find fat girls attractive in the least. The nature of my specific corner of the tummy/bellybutton infatuation kind of makes it difficult for me to be sexually attracted to women of a certain weight and size. It's just not my preference and frankly I'm sick of being made to feel guilty or being labeled fat phobic because of this new "body positivity" movement.

How can someone make you feel guilty about what you like or don't like?

CONCAVETUMMYLOVER

It's happened. In today's society you can be labeled a homophobe if you refuse to date your own gender or a transphobe if you don't date trans people or fatphobic for not wanting to date people who are overweight. I find it interesting how the narrative of the body positive movement and the shaming of not wanting to date fat people only goes one way. If you're a man who prefers not to date chubby or fat girls then you are an evil, shallow asshole, but if a woman refuses to date a fat man then that's perfectly acceptable and normal.

Fulci Lives

It's happened. In today's society you can be labeled a homophobe if you refuse to date your own gender or a transphobe if you don't date trans people or fatphobic for not wanting to date people who are overweight. I find it interesting how the narrative of the body positive movement and the shaming of not wanting to date fat people only goes one way. If you're a man who prefers not to date chubby or fat girls then you are an evil, shallow asshole, but if a woman refuses to date a fat man then that's perfectly acceptable and normal.

Some spot on facts right there. Plus the body positive stuff pretty much only apply to women. Larger guys get treated like garbage all the time and no one bats a eye at it.

Seamus_B

So, you want the right to like or not like whatever women's body type you want (and you do have that right, and you should; just look at the vast majority of images on this site), but you don't want anyone else having that right when it comes to men? There's no vast conspiracy or pressure to want something you don't want.

CONCAVETUMMYLOVER

It's happened. In today's society you can be labeled a homophobe if you refuse to date your own gender or a transphobe if you don't date trans people or fatphobic for not wanting to date people who are overweight. I find it interesting how the narrative of the body positive movement and the shaming of not wanting to date fat people only goes one way. If you're a man who prefers not to date chubby or fat girls then you are an evil, shallow asshole, but if a woman refuses to date a fat man then that's perfectly acceptable and normal.

Some spot on facts right there. Plus the body positive stuff pretty much only apply to women. Larger guys get treated like garbage all the time and no one bats a eye at it.

Thank you man. You totally get it. The blatant hypocrisy is mind boggling isn't it?

CONCAVETUMMYLOVER

So, you want the right to like or not like whatever women's body type you want (and you do have that right, and you should; just look at the vast majority of images on this site), but you don't want anyone else having that right when it comes to men? There's no vast conspiracy or pressure to want something you don't want.

When did I say I want to take a way anyone's right to have preferences when it comes to men? I never said that. You didn't read my comment. I was only pointing out the hypocrisy of the body positive movement and how it only seems to go one way. In favor of fat women and not fat men.

If you've been paying attention things are shifting in the dating world and not for the better. Certain groups of people want to shame us into dating them and labeling people all manner of phobes for not wanting to. I would attach links but the algorithm here is kind of iffy about that.

Seamus_B

Who are these people you say are trying to 'shame ' you into dating a person you don't want to, and how do they even know who you want to date?