I know I have less in terms of critique ground in this debate due to not watching Episode 8 OR 9. I instead read what I needed to know and watched clips and other critiques on the movies. That said, if you enjoy the movies, that's great. Truly. I'm glad people can see them and like them or love them. For me personally, it's a train wreck that has glimmers and sparks of hope sewn in, yet otherwise, it's just a big, boisterous mess.
I feel having different directors was a terrible idea. Rian Johnson didn't give two f*cks about the previous film or any other film, he wanted to do it HIS way, and that meant "subverting expectations" by flipping off the fans. Then to go back to J.J. Abrams... It just doesn't seem to have worked very well. Abrams was going one way. Johnson said "nah, I'm going my own way," and then Abrams had to basically scramble to half-backtrack.
And in doing so...
We're left with Rey Palpatine the glorified Mary Sue who never develops as a real character, a half-assed romance/soulmate subplot that goes nowhere, the redemption of Ben Solo after two movies of being an angsty teen, the Emperor magically surviving and getting shoehorned in, Luke almost apologizing for how he was written in Episode 8, characters getting sidelined or forgotten, Leia being a Jedi with little build up, endless fan service galore, and Fin and Poe having very little to do overall.
And that isn't even getting into the various retcons and pointless decisions made - like Snoke the clone puppet, the Knights of Ren, and Hux the mole. What even.
Oh. And I might be an outlier in saying this, but... I legit couldn't care less about midriff exposure. No, I don't find it "sexist," I just don't care about it, personally.